Tending the Soil, Tending the Soul
Shelley Tantau Shelley Tantau

Tending the Soil, Tending the Soul

There’s something quietly magical about sinking your hands into the soil. For me, gardening is a sanctuary, a respite in this world that is constantly challenging our nervous systems. The simple act of planting, tending, and watching life grow can ground you in a way that few other activities can. By “grounded,” I mean feeling steady, centered, and connected to the present moment - less pulled by stress and more anchored in yourself. Gardening isn’t just about flowers and vegetables - it’s an intentional pause, a way to connect with yourself and the world around you.

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It’s Okay to Not Be Okay
Shelley Tantau Shelley Tantau

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

You deserve support without shame.

It’s time to normalize mental health care in the same way we do physical health care.

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The One She Needed All Along
Shelley Tantau Shelley Tantau

The One She Needed All Along

The one she needed all along.

You begin to know — that your value was never conditional. That your softness is strength. That your voice is sacred.

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What is in a name…
Shelley Tantau Shelley Tantau

What is in a name…

The butterfly is one of the most enduring symbols of transformation. It reminds us that growth is often messy, nonlinear, and hidden—just like healing. The process of metamorphosis requires stillness, surrender, and time in the dark before emerging into something new. At Alchemy Integrative Mental Health, the butterfly reflects our belief that change is always possible—even when it feels out of reach. Like alchemy, transformation isn’t just about becoming something different; it’s about uncovering the beauty and strength that were within you all along.

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